Top 7 Common Relationship Problems and Solutions

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Top 7 Common Relationship Problems and Solutions

No matter how happy a couple is and how compatible they are with each other, they will still fight. I know; the fact that every couple has relationship problems is little comfort when your relationship is going through a rough patch. But what does make you feel better is that if others can solve their love problems, so can you. In this article, I talk about two of the common relationship problems that are faced by people and what you can do to handle them.

Most of us have problems getting along with someone in our lives. Often times it is with someone that we really want to be close to.  There are a number of very common relationship problems. According to William Glaser M.D., almost all relationship problems are the result of a controlling, punishing, “I know what’s right for you” mindset.  Glaser calls this mindset external control psychology and believes it is one of the primary reasons that people are unhappy and have failing relationships.

There are all types of relationship problems including the ones with marriage. For whatever problem there is a solution. Below are some of the most common relationship problems and solutions including resources that can help you solve the problem and have a better relationship or marriage.

Compatibility:

This is one issue that really needs to be addressed. You can never really tell if you are 100% compatible with your partner. Compatibility deals with the ease in which two people make adjustments towards each other. More often than not couples who are compatible get to adjust to one another and this compatibility issue helps the couple to get along with each other really well. Once there is a problem with compatibility then being able to adjust towards each other will be harder thus will cause problems in the future.

Communication:

Communication is one of the things that determine the success of any relationship and it’s ironic how we always take it for granted. Most problems root from poor communication skills. Both of you should be honest and the most important thing is learn how to listen. Make time or an actual appointment with each other. If you live together, put your mobile phones on vibrate or let the answering machine pick up your calls if you really need to talk and settle an issue.

Commitment:

Because there are lots of things that get our attention and keep us busy, we tend to lose focus in the relationship. If you lose commitment to the relationship or one another, then this could be a big relationship problem. Losing commitment to one another is like losing the trust, and love that you have given to one another.

Trust:

In a relationship, trust is the fuel that drives the partners forward. In an absence of trust, the relationship is bound to break up sooner or later. One must understand that there is no magic potion that can build trust in a relationship. If the partners fail to work out trust in their relationship in one way, then they must know that it be done in any other way and try alternative ways. Both the partners must work in various ways to build the trust and take care of their relationship.

Sex:

You might think that sex will never be a problem in a relationship because it is something that you both do consensually. But even partners who really love each other can be incompatible sexually. Sex is actually one act which brings a couple closer together. It is an act that makes two bodies into one. So if you don’t have sexual chemistry then this might be a cause for another to cheat or find someone to satisfy their sexual needs.

Money:

Believe it or not, money is one of the most common reasons why couples break up or end up in divorce. Relationship experts suggest that couples with money woes really need to sit down and talk about their finances. Be honest about your present financial situation. Do you owe an unbelievable amount in your credit card? Do you keep your bills up to date? If things are not doing so well for you, you may want to think twice in continuing the same lifestyle that you’ve been used to before the loss.

If both of you are big spenders, both of you have to be dedicated in changing your ways tendencies. Construct a joint budget and include savings. Stick to your needs and not your wants.

Focus:

When in a relationship, the focus should naturally be on the relationship. This is where many people make the mistake. Unless the relationship is a priority, it will soon lose its luster.  There are very few things that one can put above a
relationship. However, when other relationships, friends or work start taking precedence over the relationship, then you can be sure that grave problems are underlying. Such problems can put any relationship to the back burner.

These most common relationship problems are revealed in different ways:

    * Over involvement in another person’s life
    * Constant phone calls, visits, e-mails, etc.
    * Requests for attention or acknowledgment
    * Jealous or controlling behaviors (common relationship fears)
    * Withdrawal or extreme guardedness

To minimize these relationship problems in love:

Be aware of your fears! It’s okay to feel fear of intimacy; simply knowing that you’re afraid of losing yourself and being engulfed by your relationship or family could prevent it from happening. When you know what you fear, you’re in a better position to deal with it. Accepting that you have a common relationship problem will help you solve it.

Express yourself appropriately. If you’re afraid of being abandoned, try not to suffocate your loved ones with excessive attention or jealousy. Talk about your feelings, write them down see a counselor if you’re really struggling. Don’t let your relationship problems which are normal dictate your behavior or wreck your relationship.

Get educated. Do you have an extreme fear of intimacy or fear of abandonment? Find out how to successfully deal with change and how to be supportive when your loved ones want to change. Read books, seek support groups, or talk to a counselor about your relationship problems.

These common relationship problems take some work to overcome, but being aware and open to change will go a long way.
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Personal Training Marketing System

I have for you one of THE MOST powerful and effective lead generation programs for your fitness business. You will have more leads than you ever thought was possible.

Want to hear some great news? You can start realizing the benefits right away, and you don't have to take a course, or read any books about how to do this. It seem too good to be true, right?


But it's not. It's a proven program that will show you that your business can grow, and right away too! You're not going to have to break a sweat; it's so good that it will almost seem to work all on its own, if you do things right.

How well will it work? Well if you like the idea of earning six figures like I have using this system, then I would say that it will work very well for you.

The secret weapon that you need for your fitness business marketing program, is called a lead box. Yes, the same humble lead box that you might find at any privately owned store or restaurant. You might be scratching your head at this point, and maybe you've wondered if anyone can get leads from using a lead box. You can and this is how.

Let's say that you set out 10 lead boxes, and those 10 boxes produced 100 leads for you a week. In a month, you would have 400 leads, and even if you only got 200 leads that panned out, you'd be having a rockin' good month, leads wise.

Now here's the thing. In order for this to really start working for you, then you have to cultivate personal relationships with the owners and the operators of these businesses. There needs to be some incentive on their part to display your lead box. Otherwise, your lead box is going into the trash, and you will waste time and feel frustrated.

Next, get yourself a notepad and pen. Start making a list of 50 potential businesses that you can contact to put a box in their stores. Make sure that these are businesses that would be a natural fit for your fitness clients. Any of the beauty service shops are going to definitely be key. Also, think about places like health food stores, doctors offices, etc.

Make sure you then get phone numbers for these 50 businesses. You need to start making some phone calls to these businesses. The phones are a key point in your campaign. You will get on the phones and say something to this effect:

"Hi, I'm Joe or Jane Trainer, and I own a fitness boot camp, or a fitness studio. I wanted to inform you that I want to start referring all of my current and future clients to your business. The reason is because your business is a good fit for my clients. Who do I need to speak with regarding referring customers to your business?"

Please note this: You need to get past the gatekeepers. These are the cashiers, the front desk person or managers. You want the decision makers, such as the owners, the general managers, or the PR managers. They will want to know in their minds what's in this for them, and what's the catch. You'll say," I'd like to offer you and the staff a free membership to my (service that you offer). By the same token, I'll refer my clients to your business. You'll be among the few businesses that I feel are in line with the type of businesses that my clients would want to shop with. All that I'm asking is that you display one of my lead boxes in a prominent area. How does that sound?"

Either they'll say yes or no. If they say yes, you are going to put a lead box in their business. You will get some "no"s, and this is why you want to start with a baseline of 50 businesses.

Next, you're going to follow up on your lead boxes. Think of it like checking to make sure that the seeds that you planted are sprouting. Only, you are going to keep a constant check on your boxes. You WILL follow up on the leads immediately. If you do nothing else, you MUST follow this step, or the whole campaign will be shot.

Next, you will chose at random a "lucky winner" to get a free membership package once a month. The rest of the leads "win" a free week of your services. You'll want to do this when you're hosting a boot camp or a group training session. You don't want to spend excess resources on the one-on-ones.

Now, here's another reason for you to build those relationships with the owners and the managers. If they participate in your services and they like you, they will tell their customers to sign up in your lead boxes, and they will send people your way. Now your lead boxes are doing the hard work for you!

Like I mentioned, I used this, and my leads went through the roof! The same thing happened with my Fit Body Boot camp owners also. Money was made by all.

Last, remember that you should add the new leads to your FitPro newsletter email list when you contact them with the free week offer. Add those business owners to the email list also. If you do this, you make good on your word to promote their businesses.

The system that I just shared with you made me six figures and it can work so well for you!
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Shakira Song Details Of No Problem Movie

Song Name: Shakira
Film/Album: No Problem
Singer(s): Master Saleem, Hard Kaur, Kalpana
Music Director: Pritam
Lyricist: Kumaar
Picturised on: Anil Kapoor, Sanjay Dutt, Akshaye Khanna, Suniel Shetty, Kangna Ranaut, Sushmita Sen
Choreography: Chinni Prakash
Length: 4:00
Music Label: Eros Music

Shakira Song HD Video Of No Problem Movie




Shakira Song Lyrics Of No Problem Movie

Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls
Please report to the dance floor and yes
Are you ready to rumble
Got to, got to get down shake your hips and move em around
DJ play my favorite song, gonna rock this hello beyond town
Dus dus get down shake your hips and move em around
DJ play my favorite song, gonna rock this hello beyond town

Jisne dekha dance tera bas tere peechay ho liya
Dance floor pe teri kar kar dhol bajaye dol liya
Ho jisne dekha dance tera bas tere peechay ho liya
Dance floor pe teri kar kar dhol bajaye dol liya
Mashoor tere thumke Canada tak ni, Canada tak ni oye
Shakira bhi se zyada tera hille lak ni - 4 times

Hey we don't care about a damn thing
Let you hip shake, keep on dancing
Had a drinkle sufi want him one
Coz one more gonna to take me to dance floor

Dholiya chakde, chakde chakde chakde dholiya

Aaj khushi mein ho jaa crazy, pee le desi ya angrezi
Nain wali botal se tu peg barh le
Do dilon ki hogi yaari, rasme poori hogi saari
Dil jaise chaahe bas tu nach le

I can do my thing, you can do your thing

Aaj khushi mein ho jaa crazy, pee le desi ya angrezi
Nain wali botal se tu peg barh le
Haye do dilon ki hogi yaari, rasme poori hogi saari
Dil jaise chaahe bas tu nach le

Agar si hila de gori payr chak ni, payr chak ni oye
Shakira bhi se zyada tera hille lak ni - 4 times

Ve main vi nach la, ve tu bhi nach le
Sanu vekh ke, nacche saari duniya
Main vi nach la, ve tu bhi nach le
Sanu vekh ke, nacche saari duniya

I can do my thing, you can do your thing
I can do my thing and let those hips swing

Kaan me tere chamke baali
Gaal pe tere lamke laali
Chaand bhi tareef kare gorey rang ki
Chain chura le mere dil ki
Iss ne toh hai neendh bhi looti
Koi bhi na hogi kudi mere sang ki

I can do my thing and let my hips swing

Kaan me tere chamke baali
Gaal pe tere lamke laali
Chaand bhi tareef kare gorey rang ki
Oye hoye chain chura lai mere dil ki
Iss ne toh hai neendh bhi looti
Koi bhi na hogi kudi mere sang ki
Haan daal gayi daaka yeh teri agni, ke teri agni
Shakira bhi se zyada tera hille lak ni - 4 times
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